27 September 2010

Girly girl time...



I'm kind of overwhelmed! It's been a glorious few days despite Brian's absence as he's in Utah. I really miss him a LOT. But my dear friend since age 11, Amy, is out here and we've had such an incredible time of reconnecting and just enjoying each other's company. No one in the world knows me the way she does. I mean, we've been friends since FIFTH grade...forty years! I always tell people they're blessed if they have one true heart friend, and between Amy and Susan, I have two. My life is so much richer for knowing these incredible women.
My friend, Amy, has 3 sons whom she affectionately calls "the manhood." They're all grown up now...amazing guys. But she's never had a lot of girl time like we have in our home. So this week we've been staying up late to chat and laugh, watch "chick flicks," and just enjoy being together. Over the weekend we headed to Denver to see the girls and Ian. Amy (Robinson, not Anderson!) got to see both of the girls campuses, eat in the dining hall, make a Target run, push the wheelchair for our girl (her namesake), and laugh a lot. On Saturday we met Laura & Ian at a really cool little pizza place for an early birthday celebration (mine), and then we headed back to Ian's house for coconut cake (my favorite.) Yesterday morning we all met at City Park in Denver to walk in an event for Down's Syndrome in honor of a special little guy named Myles. The day was gorgeous and the company was perfect. What a beautiful, wonderful day!

22 September 2010

sparkly clean...

I have a confession to make. While I always manage to get surface cleaning done around the house, I struggle to find time to get down to the nitty gritty. Life is so chaotic and when I finally have a chance to catch my breath, I tend to pick up a good book or work on our family scrapbooks. Yes, I feel guilty, but it's how I "recharge my batteries" sometimes. Lately we've had a lot going on around here and while I was working hard to get ahead, somehow the to-do list just kept getting longer. Enter my parents, whom we affectionately call "the seniors." Yesterday they paid someone to come in and clean my house...for 5 hours! It was an early birthday present, and what a present it was! Tonight my friend from childhood (whom my Amy is named after) is coming to spend almost a week with us while Brian is away, and it's so strange to not have to run around and clean like crazy today. Instead I walked for over an hour, got errands run, gave Annie a bath, chatted with my Amy online, did the ironing & laundry, and made fruit/oatmeal bars. It's only 3:17 and I still have time to relax before she gets in at 7pm. Wow. Thanks, seniors, for this most awesome and appreciated gift! You have no idea how much I loved it!!!

19 September 2010

The JWU 5!


It's been a crazy weekend with Amy and four of her JWU chef friends in the house. Yesterday the guys fixed Mexican food for us. I wish you could have smelled my house as it was cooking! It was poetry in motion to watch the action and I had a ring-side seat to it all. I have to say that at times it was a bit crazy and loud, but it was so much fun! Mom & Dad came over to watch the fun and enjoy the food, too. My favorite part of the meal was the jalapeno poppers. I know they're not really good for me, but it was a treat to have homemade ones and I loved them! Unfortunately, so did Annie, the wonder beagle (who I suspect is part Mexican.) Before anyone could stop her, she'd snatched one from the plate on the coffee table. If you'll recall, this is a dog who has random digestive issues. So far, so good, but I'm on alert for the next couple of days.

I just dropped Brian off at the airport for his 2 week trip to Salt Lake City. He wasn't even home for 24 hours this time. It's hard to believe he's gone again so soon. Just a couple more trips between now and 1 November, though, and then he gets to stay home for a little while. One of my dearest friends in the world is coming out this week for about 6 days. That'll make time pass more quickly for Bethany and me. And next weekend we're all headed up to Denver to see Laura & Ian and then walk in an event to raise money for Down's Syndrome. I think time will pass much slower for Brian. But I hear it's quite gorgeous in Utah, so he'll have lots to see/do.

14 September 2010

Family update

Things are fairly calm for our family at the moment, and we certainly welcome it. Brian is in Maui this week for a space conference. I know, I know...Maui...what a rough life. But I have to say that neither of us like really hot, humid weather anymore, and he says it's not as much fun when I'm not with him anyway. So it's not all fun and games for him. He'll roll in Saturday and leave again on Sunday for 2 weeks...this time for Salt Lake City.

Laura is enjoying her floor this year. The group she had last year as an RA was always into something and she was constantly on guard. This floor is, for the most part, much more cohesive and fun. I think she called them "an RA's dream" or something like that. She deserves it after some of the stuff she had to deal with previously. Wedding plans are kind of slow but steady. We have a long way to go, but at least some of the big things are done. Now that things are rolling along with school, finally Laura & Ian are getting to spend some time together.

Amy is on duty in her dorm a lot, but she said it's because she only has classes 2 days a week. Next trimester she'll be in labs at 6am 4 days a week, so her duty hours should slow down. She's getting by pretty much with her leg braces but is thankful to have the wheelchair on the days she knows she'll be on her feet a lot. She's also taking 22.5 hours of academics since she added the independent study food writing class; she's a busy girl. This weekend she and 3 of "the boys" are coming down. Rumor has it they're cooking Mexican food for us one night!

Bethany's working hard in her classes and is holding onto some impressive grades. She also continues to volunteer several hours a week for the hospital and the fire department. Her boyfriend is gone for a month, and I know she misses him a lot. But we've enjoyed some girl time this week, and I really enjoy spending time with her. She's a great girl!

My big news is that I've begun walking 5 mornings a week with a neighbor, and already I feel better. We walk for an hour with her dog and often one of her two girls, and believe me, we feel rather accomplished when we get home! Having someone waiting at 7am in the cul-de-sac is a great motivator when I'd rather sleep in. Because the walking makes me feel good, I've also begun eating smarter and drinking more water. Baby steps. We're in our 4th week already. One of these days I'm going to look in the mirror and see a new me, right?!!

Annie, the wonder beagle, still keeps us guessing about what we'll deal with each day. She can be perfectly fine at night but wake up with a rumbly tummy in the morning. Because she doesn't always digest her food well, she sleeps in a port-a-crib each night. I'd forgotten how abnormal this is until my neighbor laughed about it...especially when I told her we cover Annie up with a fleece blanket each night. Our little beagle has become a "princess!" But she's almost 11, or 77 in human years. She deserves a little pampering, don't you think?

09 September 2010

Blessed...

I have to say that I'm just blown away with the many awesome friends we have. Life is rich and full and we feel so loved. Thanks, all of you, for loving our family thru thick and thin. Despite everything, we're truly blessed.

05 September 2010

Mile High Myles

Laura has a tiny little friend at her church in Golden named Myles. She adores that little guy, so on 26 September, we're going to participate in a fundraiser walk for Down's Syndrome in City Park in Denver in honor of Myles. I think it's going to be a blast. Bethany and I are going up the day before to spend the night, and we'll get Amy so she can have a night of air conditioning, too. We'll all take turns pushing her in the wheelchair during the walk. I'm excited about doing this. I've always felt that kids with Down's Syndrome are really God's angels on earth. What fun it will be to walk with them. We'll meet Ian & Laura there, and finally I'll get a chance to meet little Myles after hearing all about him since his birth. I can't wait! Oh, and Mile High Myles is the team name...pretty clever!

http://www.mhdsa.org/step-up-walk/ is the link if anyone wants to join the team virtually! Just don't forget to register under Mile High Myles. It's only $25 until Sept 11 for an adult and $35 after that. And if you feel like actually walking, that's even better! If you're registered, you even get a pancake breakfast. Hope to see you there!

01 September 2010

Girls, girls, girls...


There's nothing like hearing the girls voices to warm this mom's heart. Today I was able to talk for quite awhile with Laura for the first time since she left several weeks ago. We were able to get caught up without interruption...huge since she's a really busy girl. And I have to say that she sounds/looks wonderful (thanks to Skype, I also got to see her.) She's happy and her senior year is getting off to a terrific start. The 3 previous years of hard work both as an RA and in the classroom are yielding great benefits for her in terms of experience. I'm really proud of her.
Last night I e-mailed with Amy a bit, and it sounds like she's still kind of flying high from her talks with administrators and teachers the other day. Today her suite mate moves in and I know she's looking forward to that. And she survived her first night of being on duty as a new RA last night. Yep, I'm really proud of this girl, too.
This morning I had the opportunity to drive over by the school to watch (across a field) Bethany ride a mechanical bull with her sports psychology class. She sure is a cowgirl at heart, and it showed in her form. A natural! It was mostly boys who pounced on this opportunity. In the time I watched, she was only the second girl to climb on. Yep, this girl makes me grin and I'm pretty proud of her, too!
My neighbor complimented me the other day on what fabulous girls we have, and it was a sweet thing to hear. But I made sure to tell her that while we'd love to take the credit, it's definitely God in them that she sees. We're their parents, but they're only on loan to us for a little while. They're God's girls! We sure do love them, but HE loves them even more.